Dealing with life challenges as a middle aged man? You’re not alone.

Work related stresses, relationship stresses (partnered or single), parenting stresses, financial stresses, health challenges.

Dissatisfaction with aspects of your life (e.g. work, unemployment, relationships, work/life balance).

I’m in my 50s and experienced most of these, as have a lot of men I know (family/friends)…I understand how you feel.

We navigate ourselves through these challenges as best we can (often on our own), and seem to do alright for ourselves by societal standards, but are we really doing well for ourselves?

If you’re like me, what was important to you at the age of twenty, may not hold the same significance now.

In regard to employment, over the years I pursued and gained positions that made my life more comfortable, but also eventually lead me to feeling stagnant. A change was triggered by two simple questions:

1. What would life look like if it had more meaning’?
2. What if I created a career in accordance with my values?

Although they were simple questions, they had a profound impact on me.

In my midlife, mid-career change story, I didn’t find my dream job or employer. Instead, I discovered a single value that was incredibly important to me. It was so important to me I was willing to work harder and persevere longer than I ever had before, regardless of how long it took to achieve it.

I believe every person deserves to pursue the best version of themselves.

Just like what I set out to achieve in my new career, which offered a chance for me to earn a living helping others improve their lives.

Observing and assisting in the success of those who want a second chance in their career, schooling, relationships, and health is a source of great satisfaction for me. It fills me with joy to see individuals gaining control over their own lives and achieving greater happiness.

This realisation prompted me to delve into the study of life coaching, positive psychology, and career development, which is very different from that 20-year-old version of me. I also utilise my life long experience of being a track athlete where I’ve gained life experiences and mindsets in pursuit of achieving the full potential of the individual.

Life expectancy for our generation is greater than those before us.  Mid-life provides wisdom, maturity, growth, and new opportunities. Preparing for old age, is also on the agenda. A good retirement is not solely dependent on money. Without good physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual wellbeing, failure to plan can lead to massive consequences.

One decision, can be life changing. If you want to change your life, I invite you to visit me today and book a free 45-minute chat. I understand how you feel.